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Unbelievable Cost Of Blaming

 

Have you been BLAMED for something you have not done? Or have you blamed someone for something in your life? All of us play the blame game…but fail to realize the damage it does in our life. Watch the video in which I share 3 cost of blaming and 2 steps you can take to eliminate blaming from your life forever.

If someone is blaming you for the crap in their life…forward this video to them. It might help them realize the cost of blaming.

What do you do if you don’t blame and how do you tackle people who blame you? Leave a
comment below the video.

Stay Alive! Stay Fearless!
Dream BIG, Stay Strong.

- Murtaza

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FULL VIDEO TRANSCRIPT

Has somebody blamed you for something you haven't done?

Have you blamed somebody for something happened in your life?

In this video I want to talk about the Blame Game. Everybody plays this one because of the things they don't want to take responsibility of.

Spouses blame each other for not being who they wanted them to be, students blame teachers for setting difficult papers, employee blames the boss and vice versa, parents blame children for making their life miserable and so on.

We blame anything and everything to get over our responsibilities. And if you don't find anyone to blame, you blame your luck. Or even God!

I believe when we blame other people, three things happen.

1. You're giving the control of your life to the person you are blaming.

But how is someone else responsible for your results? Weren't you a part of the action? Didn't you have a hand in the results? Were you not involved?

So did you behave or not behave a certain way? Could you have done it better and changed the results? Absolutely! So why blame someone and hand over control to them?

2. The moment you blame, they won't accept and will argue and quarrel!

You lost relationships, you get hurt and you hurt people when you started the blame game.

3. You waste your precious energy, time and peace of mind.

Why do that? Blaming isn't going to change the situation anyway.

So what do you do?

1. Take responsibility
Just accept that whatever is happening in your life, you have contributed to the results. Just like you would do when things turn out good.

2. Do something about it
Do not sit and complain and blame and feel sorry for yourself and pity yourself. Self blame isn't going to help either. Get up, take responsibility and do something about the results.


Unless you are Alive and Fearless, you can't take charge, responsibility and not blame. Because if bad results happened because of you, you can always undo it. You can make it ripe, right and good. Once you believe, you can go ahead and do what needs to be done.

Who knows what needs to be done? You! If you don't, find out. Find out and do it, move and shake and go create a life you love!

Be the one Alive and Fearless to take responsibility and make it right. Sometimes you might also take responsibility for things you have not done being the person who says, 'Whatever happened let's move on and do what needs to be done.'

Tell me if you haven't blamed somebody, then what did you do?

Stay Alive, Stay Fearless!
Dream Big. Stay strong!


Stay tuned for the next video. Thank you!